"Women are like Macs"
"Men are like PCs"
do u all noe why?
ANSWER!
like a Mac, there can be many 'windows' open (thought and feelings) on the screen of a woman's mind at any one time.
the 'PC' mindset of a man, who is able to close each 'window' on his screen before going to the next one.
that's why most women can multitask and most men can't!
TIPS:
For Guys:
when your girlfriend has a problem and comes to you with it, what she really wants is your empathy, not a whole list of probable quick-fixes. just give her an hour of your time to just listen all that she's feeling, and offering her a shoulder to cry on.
For Girls:
behind your man's string facade may lie uncertainty and the fear of failing. sometimes he is unsure about what he should do in a situation and feels adequate to provide solutions or comfort, but he masks his insecurity and 'acts tough'. so we can encourage and affirm him by showing our appreciation, especially in front of others.
HE LOVES YOU.
if there's one thing a man most wishes you knew about him, it's that he really loves you. Often, he may want to express his feelings to you, but he worries that he will not do a good job. To make things easier for him, let him know what makes you feel most loved! Appreciate him for the times he does try to show his love to you.
SHE NEEDS TO FEEL LOVED.
Most women are insecure about whether their man really loves them. Whenever this insecurity is triggered, she may responds in ways that confused or dismay you, until she feels reassured. Constant romancing your woman, whether in little or big ways, will tell her that you are desire and care for her, thus lessening her feelings of insecurity.
after reading all these, i feel that its quite true. and these are being hear so many times just that it just dont get into my mind. so abit of reminder for everyone =)
hope you people can make your relationship work. and use this opportunity to discover how unique each person is, and how those differences complement each other.
